(due to the nature of Passion Parties there is content inappropriate for children, 18 years or older please)
HAPPY PASSIONANNIVERSARY TO ME!!
So I started looking online for things I could do to make money with skills I already had, without having to invest a lot of time or money to get it going.
I was already maxed out on time (worked at the gym 5am-5pm 7 days a week) and money (everything we made was already spoken for). This brought me into the world of direct sales and network marketing. Now all I had to decide is what I wanted to sell??
Everything that I knew about (candles, lotions, makeup, cooking stuff, supplements, etc.) all seemed like a hard thing to sell. And that is when Passion Parties came across my screen. It seemed like it would be easier to sell, if for nothing else, curiosity would bring women to a party, and once they are there, they will want to buy at least a lube or something to keep them out of “those stores” or avoid a loudspeaker announcement at Walmart “price check on K-Y lube for the woman in checkout lane 4 please”.
I was sold.
The only problem was, I knew NOTHING about any of the products. I have never been to a Passion Party before, had never seen any of these products, and quite frankly was nervous to talk about them. I don’t think I ever said the words penis, vagina, or clitoris out loud…ever! Even my husband of 9 years at the time when my startup kit arrived asked me “do you even know what that is?” Hmmmm…
I had a lot to learn. Luckily I was motivated to get going, make money, and build up my biz enough to quit my job at the gym so I started booking parties immediately. Also, doing the parties was easy because I had spent the past 15 years in spandex wearing a mic bouncing around on a stage teaching aerobics so I was used to “public speaking” and “making stuff up as I go”. But honestly I knew nothing about sex, passion, intimacy, or our products, much less teaching OTHERS about it!
So I did what I always do, start learning!
Here are the 3 things I learned along the way that have helped me help thousands of women have better relationships with their partners…
1. When you feel sexy, you are sexy.
Being sexy honestly has NOTHING to do with how you look, it’s how you feel. If you feel sexy, you will emit an energy that will make you sexier.
In the fitness industry I saw this all the time. Someone walks in who is not the typical “hot gym body” but has the confidence and attitude like she is. And guess what? She looks way better than the girl all hunched over in the corner hiding herself and her body, even if her body is “better”. So if you want to have great sex; be sexy, feel sexy, and you will look sexy! We have over 40 bath and body products designed to help you look and feel your sexiest!
2. The majority of women are not having wild amazing orgasmic sex daily.
Now that I am in my 40s, been married almost 20 years, and have been in the sex industry for 10 years, this sounds like a “duh” statement. But when I was 33 and never talked about sex with any of my friends, ever, I was shocked (and relieved) that this was true. I am an avid movie watcher and also enjoy the occasional night time drama such as Grey’s Anatomy where women are constantly horny and turned on and no matter how tired or busy they are, they always want to end their night or shift with hot sex.
I thought there was something wrong with me since I didn’t feel that way and I just chalked it up to being different (and a loser, and a weirdo, and a prude, and a lame wife). Come to find out, I AM NORMAL!! I am the norm! YAY!! What a relief! Now to talk my hubby into believing it!
What I have found in talking open and honestly to women of all ages, backgrounds, and relationship status’ is that about 1% of women have sex daily (or multiple times a day) and about 40% of women are having sex about once a week. That leaves over half of all women having sex less than once a week! Just knowing (and sharing) this fact has helped so many women feel more confident in their selves and their relationships. It’s always nice to know you aren’t “broken”.
3. 80% of women cannot have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
Another complete “a-ha” moment for me after watching women all over the small and big screen having mind-blowing orgasms, several times in a row, every single time they go at it. And again, a sign of relief knowing that I’m not a broken woman. When I tell women this at our in-home parties, I get the same reaction I had by the majority of the women. Grateful they are not alone and grateful that now they know the facts and can work around this little inconvenience! And the majority of our products for both individuals and couples are designed to help with this specific issue.
So there is hope! For all of us!! YAY!
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